Thursday, October 4, 2012

:: STOP SEARCHING FOR A PRINCE ::


Nowadays, there is a trend on facebook / twitter/ blog where people would talk about marriage
Demanding a great, soleh husband/wife 2 enter the Jannah together & so on


Looking at a positive side
I can't deny that it's good for us 2 have a perspective that a relationship between a man & woman is a thousand way better with marriage - as all of us (Muslims) get the fact that marriage has more Barakah & is a Halal way 2 express love


Furthermore,
 A successful marriage is a door to Jannah. I find that it's beautiful when it's said that if a woman is a man's key 2 paradise (by helping him 2 full-fill his deen with her through marriage & being an obedient wife)
so...
 A man is a woman's door to Jannah. The key that opens the door -  a husband & a wife  need each other's help 2 get there, 
MASYAALLAH


The Prophet Muhammad S.A.W said " The most perfect believer in faith is the one whose character is finest & who is kindest 2 his wife "


As a Muslim woman, I also want a great man 2 marry me
The man who lovers his gaze so that I become the only women he sees
The man who preserved his heart for me
The man whose love will make me stronger
A gift from ALLAH, InsyaALLAH
Surely, I want him 2 encourage me 2 be closer 2 ALLAH in our
 Baitul Muslim: Baitul dakwah


But sisters.....
Do you think that a prince of Deen will marry you while you just sit in front of your laptop,
busy updating ur status about marrying a righteous man / sharing almost all of Irma Hasmie's marriage photos & saying how lucky she is 2 become a wife of a great man?
Will a prince of Deen look for you just because of ur splendid poem about marriage "Surat buat calon suami" entries 
OR
your "Menanti bakal imamku dunia akhirat" status??
NO!!!!!!!


And why do you focus on finding a righteous man only?
STOP IT!!!
Don't let ur imagination ruin yourself
There are many doors of Jannah & dnt focus on one way (marriage)
Be a righteous person 1st, prepare urself
Devote urself to Allah and when you stop searching for a prince and make Allah the King of ur heart, 
HE will help U to complete ur fairy tale


" I tell the boys & girls : Allah has already written the name of ur spouses 4 u.....What u need to work on is ur relationship with Allah....He will send Him/Her 2 u when you're ready....It's only a matter of time"

For ladies...
 Remember this...
Dnt worry if U haven't  found ur life partner
Be a righteous woman not just because U want 2 marry a righteous man
Marry a righteous man not just becoz U want him 2 go with U to Jannah
You can attain Jannah with or without marriage
Now..... the time for you be the one that can lead urself there


Pray and make du'a for the best, not just for life in dunya but also for hereafter
Ask Allah to forgive our sins, our parents sins, our family's, teacher's and friend's


And ask Allah to help ourselves to be among the righteous person








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